Is it wrong spending lots of time with another man when I'm married?

Its not wrong to have a guy friend to talk to, it is however wrong to develop strong feelings for another man while you are married. Even if your husband is a jerk, he doesnt deserve to be with someone who no longer loves him and is finding the attention that she needs somewhere else... If you start to fall for this other guy, you need to leave your husband, or else you are just as immature as he is.